May 17, 2010
Wrong Guy
Dear Mrs. Figgins:
I am 27 years old. I was to be married in June. Everything had been planned and I was walking on a cloud. He was everything I dreamed of. Until 7 weeks ago.
I found out my fiancé had stolen a large amount of money from the company he works for. I found out a few other things to which he never told me. He had a child with a girl when they were seniors in high school.
That day, I went to my parents and told them I wanted to call off the wedding. They have been very supportive.
Since that day 7 weeks ago, I have been in a state of shock. What happened to the man I knew. I miss him.
Am I crazy?
Courtney, Albany
Dear Courtney:
The only thing that would have qualified you as crazy is if you would have stayed with him.
Life has enough twists and turns even when everything is on the up and up.
You don’t miss him – you miss who you thought he was. And, he is not that person.
You’ve done the right thing, Courtney. Now your dreams have a real chance to come true.
Mrs. Figgins
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