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April 21, 2010

Waitress -single mother of four – & sent four kids to college

Single Mom.1 Waitress  single mother of four   & sent four kids to college

It’s Mom’s Turn!

 
Dear Mrs. Figgins:
I am a black woman.  A single Mother of 4.   I’ve been a waitress all my life.  My last baby is finishing college (THANK YOU GOD!)  That will make all 4 of them.  I love them more that my first and last breath.
I made lots of mistakes.  I wish I could have been more.  I wish I could have studied to be a nurse.  But I was too busy trying to put food to the table and keeping them right with GOD.
I have a few good years left, and I’m thinking of going back to school.  I’m not sure what I want to study now, but I want to do it.
Am I too old?
Lillian in Jackson
 
Dear Lillian:
You are a waitress, a single mother of four and you’ve sent four kids to college?   How very proud you must be! CONGRATULATIONS! 
Unfortunately, we don’t get to live life in reverse, Lillian.  I know.  I’ve made so many mistakes myself.  But you have succeeded in doing what most parents only dream of.   
I bow to you as I pen this letter and proudly nominate you for the Grand Prix Award Of Life. 
YES- YES – YES – go to school!  Whatever it is, do something just for you.  
It’s your turn, Lillian. 
Please – keep in touch!
Mrs. Figgins
 
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