Boyfriends has penchant for strip clubs
Déjà vu? Bye-bye to you!
Dear Mrs. Figgins:
I overheard one of my co-workers invite my boyfriend Danny to an all-nude strip club. Without one ounce of hesitation he responded “heck yeah!”.
When I tried to talk with Danny about it, he got very defensive and didn’t want to discuss it with me, saying I was “paranoid”.
This is not his first, second, third or even fourth time he’s gone down this slimy road. Actually we broke up before over this very issue. We broke up and I was adjusting to life without him when he came begging for us to get back, swearing off clubs. I took him back and have given it my all.
I don’t want to overreact but this sure isn’t setting well with me.
I’m afraid that it’s déjà vu all over again.
Jeri, LV
Dear Jeri:
You’re not overreacting.
Danny’s penchant is not a good sign, and a pattern you don’t want to take into marriage.
Give your heart a rest on this one and think long and hard with your brain.
If it’s “déjà vu all over again”, I suggest “you go!”. This time for good.
Mrs. Figgins
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Déjà vu? Bye-bye to you!
