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September 4, 2009

Etiquette Fundamentals

 

Good manners aren't just for formal occassions!
Good manners aren’t just for formal occassions!

 

Many believe that proper etiquette is mainly reserved for special occasions, often times thinking of these genteel rules of conduct as tedious, even boring.  Volumes have been written on this subject. 
Proper etiquette isn’t just the act of speaking eloquently…but the ability to project graceful actions. Yes, even when we don’t feel it.
The fundamental things in life do apply.  There are and forever will be, proper ways to conduct one be the situation formal or informal. 
It is quite simple to master the use of proper etiquette.  It begins with the golden rule: treat others as politely as you would like a beloved family member to be treated.  Treat others with the same consideration you expect…I dare say, even more. 
Pay it forward.

 

  • Never interrupt when someone is speaking.  Be interested (or appear so).  Be certain that the person speaking has finished before adding your own thoughts.
  • Turn off your cell phone during meals, and whenever entering a restaurant. Make this a rule and it will become a habit!  
  • Never speak with your mouth full of food.  Never.
  •  Always RSVP to an invitation in a timely fashion.   Waiting until the last minute makes the host feel like you’re waiting for a better offer. 
  • Always wait your turn in line and be mindful of others space.   You probably don’t like for anyone to be looking over your shoulder or crowding your space, therefore be aware of those around you.  Impatience is quite impolite.

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August 28, 2009

Etiquette For All Occassions!

Chivalry!

Chivalry!

Many believe that proper etiquette is mainly reserved for special occasions, often times thinking of these genteel rules of conduct as tedious, even boring.  Volumes have been written on this subject.   
Proper etiquette isn’t just the act of speaking eloquently…but the ability to project graceful actions. Yes, even when we don’t feel it. 
The road to mastering proper etiquette is paved with simple building blocks.  
The fundamental courtesies in life do indeed apply.   There are, and forever will be, proper ways of conduct in situations be they formal or informal. 
Begin with the golden rule: treat others as politely as you would like a beloved family member treated.  Treat others with the same consideration you expect…I dare say, even more.   No exceptions. 
Pay it forward.  Your return on investment will exceed your wildest expectations!

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