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Keeping it safe.

 

Dear Mrs. Figgins:
 
We’re concerned grandparents.  Our two grandkids are now playing hockey.   These kids can really get hurt.
 
How do we handle this without overstepping boundaries with our son and his wife daughter in law?
 
Nan and I are losing sleep over this.
 
Doug and Nan, Ontario

 

Dear Doug and Nan: 

Ice hockey is an exciting action packed sport.  And unfortunately it can also be dangerous. 

There is certainly nothing wrong with talking about your concerns with your son and daughter-in-law.  After all you have built in grandparent privileges!

If the parents have given their permission for the kids to play hockey then you’ll have to accept that decision.  

However there are smart constructive check list items which you can discuss with everyone to ensure that the game is safer and more fun for the kids as well as the entire family. 

• First and foremost:  USE SAFETY SENSE 

• The kids should be encouraged and required to play safe by setting a good example on and off the ice.

• Use full face shield & protective gear.

• Coaches & officials should be certified.

• Make sure the hockey program is well rounded and includes strength, flexibility and endurance training, to help the body in the preparation for the increased physical demands 

• Since you are in Canada a good resource for you to check out is:  Hockey Canada Kids  http://www.hockeycanada.ca/multimedia/kids/

Congratulations on a terrific job on the Olympics.  Well done indeed!

Mrs. Figgins

 

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