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Dear Mrs. Figgins:

I need help.    I started dating a guy and everything was going amazing, he told me I was perfect for him and everything.

We had stopped talking because of people getting involved.  

Then we started talking and dating again. We had sex and stopped talking.

We started talking again after that and had sex again and stopped talking again.

He got into a relationship so my friends told me that I should get over him, but my instincts were telling me not to.

I saw him at a party, and the whole night he stared at me and talked about me to his friends.

That very next weekend, I saw him again. After I had seen him the second time, he broke up with his girlfriend. I tried writing him a message, but he didnt respond.

I think its cause he wanted me to talk to him in person.

I cant get over him and I need help.

Lisa

 

Dear Lisa:

Lisa, your instincts can’t be trusted.

This was about sex, and nothing else.

He is not worth it. 

You may not value yourself, but someday you may have kids- and their wellbeing will be infinitely more important than an “amazing” moment of sex.  Ask yourself, Is this the horrific seesaw that you want for them?   I hope not.

DUMP THIS GUY AND DON’T LOOK BACK – EVER AGAIN.

Mrs. Figgins

 

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