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Calling.  Again.

 

Dear Mrs Figgins:

I am thinking of joining the military.

My granddad and father gave their life at war.  My brother has just been deployed.

Since I told Mama of my plans, she’s been real sad.  Sometimes I see her starring at me and a tear will roll down the side of her nose.   

She hasn’t forbidden me to sign up, but I know her heart is broken at the thought that either my brother or I could get hurt, or maybe not come home at all.   You know, I don’t blame her.

Mama and grandma raised us.  We had little money, but enough love to fill the oceans.

I don’t want to get killed either, and yeah I’m scared, but this is an opportunity to get an education, and help support my family down the line.

Mrs. Figgins, please shed some light.

Stuck between Little Rock and the recruiter

 

Dear Stuck: 

I begin by offering a heartfelt Thank You for the service your family has selflessly given the United States of America.  

Your decision is extremely difficult.  Your Mother’s loss has been unfathomable.

This is a very personal decision, and one that you must come to terms with in your heart and mind considering the many benefits and risks.

Either way, don’t spring any surprises on your Mother.  Be extra sensitive and tender with her.

Make sure to share your feelings and ideas every step of the way, so that she feels a part of your decision, or at least knows you have thought things thru carefully.

GOD BLESS.

Mrs. Figgins

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