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January 20, 2010

Single – not gay – so who cares – it's her business!

Happy Girl1 Single   not gay   so who cares   it's her business!
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 Dear Mrs. Figgins:
I am 30, single and quite happy.  The problem seems to be with all my family members who won’t let up on me about getting married and starting a family. 
Some have “privately” asked me if I’m gay!  No I’m not but if I were, that’s MY business.   
I have a great job, living and working in Berlin for the next year.  Not even my parents question me on this.
I’m happy, carefree, financially very comfortable, and most important to me, quite peaceful!
How do you advise that I handle this annoyance?
MISS Madison,  Berlin
 
Dear MISS Madison:
It certainly is YOUR business – and no one else’s. 
I agree with Dr. Seuss who said:
“You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes.
You can steer yourself in any direction you choose.
You’re on your own. And you know what you know.
You are the guy who’ll decide where to go.”
My advice:   Let it go – and go about your business.
PEACE!
Mrs. Figgins
 
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