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Sometimes things go                     upside down for a while.

 

Dear Mrs. Figgins:  

 I’m embarrassed to write this letter but, here it goes.   

This is my first marriage, my husband’s third.  I’m 33 he is 49.   We’re very much in love and have loads of fun together.  

Our sex life was going great guns the first couple of years,  but all of a sudden it’s come to a screeching halt.  I practically have to hang upside down naked to get him to notice me.     

Do you think having an affair might do the trick?   I have to come up with something!     

Totally Frustrated Wife

 

Dear Frustrated:   

The guns may not be smoking right now, but you love each other and have a good time together,  and that is a huge plus.    

Having an affair will most likely turn out to be a dissapearing trick – with him right on out the door.  

Counseling is the wisest course of action to find out what’s made you go upside down – and hopefully put things right side up again.  

Hang in there!

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