Involved with a married man
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Is this what you want?
Dear Mrs. Figgins:
My friend had been having an affair with our boss at work. He’s a super great guy but he’s also married with kids.
They split up. He’s been broken up about it – so I’ve joined him a few times after work for drinks.
I think we’re developing feelings for each other.
I don’t want to be stupid but I’m really falling for him.
Confused In California
Dear Confused.
You are being stupid. This relationship is based on stolen moments. It is a NO WIN situation.
This guy has been lying and cheating on his wife. He’s done it to women before you – and he’ll do to women after you. Yes, there will be ones after you. He’s a serial cheater.
If there is anything worse than being stupid it’s being a loser. “He” is a loser. “ He” is not a good husband or father.
If you do the right thing in the eyes of GOD, you’ll be doing the right thing for your future.
Mrs. Figgins
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