December 30, 2009
- Meeting the parents!
Dear Mrs. Figgins:
I am 27, gay and recently came out to my family.
I’ve never introduced anyone I have dated to my parents. However, I am now in a committed relationship with Ted and ready to take the plunge.
My parents have been very supportive since I broke the news. And it’s important to me that I make this as comfortable as possible for everyone.
Do you have any suggestions or advice on how to best approach this introduction?
William, Denver
Dear William:
You have lovely parents and the fact that you want to be sensitive to them says much about you.
It’s important that the people whom you love get to know each other.
Take the time to share family stories and fond memories with Ted. Tell him about your parent’s background, individual interests as well as particular dislikes. Bring out the family album!
Suggest that Ted bring Mom & Dad a nice hostess gift (it’s a nice touch).
In turn, tell your Mom and Dad about Ted.
Timing is important. Your mother can help you with some optional times for your first get together.
By the sounds of it, I am certain this meeting will turn out just fine, William.
Mrs. Figgins
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