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A little angel, loved the same.

 

Dear Mrs. Figgins:

 A group of us at work are very close and just found out that one of our co-workers baby was born with  Down Syndrome.   We really care for our friend, and are very concerned. 

We’re hurt that she never confided in us.  But the truth is, we just don’t know what to say or how to handle this situation.   

Would we be insensitive to send a card and gift? 

Girls in the office   

 

Dear Girls:  

A little information can go a long way in putting fears to rest. 

Individuals with Down syndrome are more like the all of us than they are different. 

Down syndrome is a genetic condition, (47 chromosomes instead of the usual 46 chromosomes), which causes delays in physical and intellectual development.  This condition occurs in approximately 1 in every 800 births.

While this is a very personal matter for your the family, your friend may or may not have known of the condition ahead of time, as it is usually identified at birth or shortly thereafter. 

While children and adults with Down syndrome experience developmental delays, they also have many wonderful talents and gifts, and should be encouraged to develop them.   

A baby is loved the same by his Mother regardless of circumstance.  This little angel is to be loved, embraced, and welcomed with hearts wide open. 

Send your friend a note of congratulations with a gift from all you girls in the office. 

Mrs. Figgins

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