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Dear Mrs. Figgins:

I am 23 years old.  I love dating and I hope to get married someday when the right guy comes along. 

I hope it’s sooner than later but I don’t want to be pressured into having sex until I get married.

How should I handle this without coming off as an old stick in the mud?

Janice, Houston

 

Dear Janice:

Good for you! 

Sexual intimacy should be valued. 

If a man can have anything at will – without a commitment and without earning it – where is the value?  

Women should make it clear right off the bat:   sex isn’t happening until “after” marriage.

A man that respects a woman – values her. 

Don’t tempt “temptation”.  

 Stay true to your values.

Mrs. Figgins

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