April 30, 2010
- Etiquette is back.
Dear Mrs. Figgins:
My boyfriend and I live in the United States but we’re thinking about getting married in Europe where most of our family is. While not strict orthodox, our families still prefer that honor our religious heritage.
Are there any trends coming about there? Are birdcage veils still popular? Will you please review some points we should consider? We’re worried about the expense, too.
Thank You for your input.
Madeline & Robert, Nova Scotia
Dear Madeline & Robert:
Indeed many couples want their wedding to reflect traditional values and are incorporating their religious, cultural and ethnic heritage.
Many couples are also opting to see each other before the ceremony. However, I personally like the more traditional way and believe it holds the “romance”.
With the global economy being so uncertain, families are also watching their finances more than ever. Many couples are participating in the cost of their own wedding and therefore controlling most of the decision-making. Advice: Spend more on the lasting memories than the frill.
A return to old-fashioned “proper” etiquette is now becoming much more important. Make certain that your thank you cards are promptly delivered – no later than 4 weeks of the wedding.
Personalized appreciation is back. Favours are an expense and easy to consider eliminating, However, most couples are especially grateful to guests who have incurred considerable expense to be a part of the celebration and a personalized favour shows the thought behind the gift. A small chocolate gift box or small champagne favor adds a marvelous touch of elegance.
I happened to attend a wedding recently and the bride wore a stunning birdcage veil. They are popular and allow dramatic vintage glamour.
Many Congratulations!
Mrs. Figgins
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