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Chivalry!

Many believe that proper etiquette is mainly reserved for special occasions, often times thinking of these genteel rules of conduct as tedious, even boring.  Volumes have been written on this subject.   

Proper etiquette isn’t just the act of speaking eloquently…but the ability to project graceful actions. Yes, even when we don’t feel it. 

The road to mastering proper etiquette is paved with simple building blocks.  

The fundamental courtesies in life do indeed apply.   There are, and forever will be, proper ways of conduct in situations be they formal or informal. 

Begin with the golden rule: treat others as politely as you would like a beloved family member treated.  Treat others with the same consideration you expect…I dare say, even more.   No exceptions. 

Pay it forward.  Your return on investment will exceed your wildest expectations!

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Dear Mrs. Figgins:

There is a guy who is special to me.  And I think he knew it.  He comes from another country.

At the last day before he leaves, I spent all day long with him.  We were fine.  We kiss, we hugs.

He promised that he will keep contact with me, and comeback to my  country latter.  It’s been a while since he gone.   But he never hit me up.

I sent him emails on his facebook, but i dont get reply.  Although, I catch him online many times and talking with some of my friends.

He just dont reply mine.  And it really kills me to see his profile, that he just dont talk to
me but with others.  I really dont know why.

And what did i do wrong with him.  What should i do now?  I planed to send him another message, but i dont know what should i
write?

Belle

 

Dear Belle:

A man who is a schmuck is a very bad investment.  And a desperate woman makes bad investments.

In your letter you write that he didn’t “hit” you?  Why would you even think this if it weren’t a possibility?

My advise, run don’t walk.   Get as far away from this guy as you can. 

Don’t write.  Don’t respond.  Don’t ever see him again. 

Respect yourself, and others will too.  Otherwise you’ll have a lifetime of bad investments, which your children will inherit.

Mrs. Figgins

                                 

 

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