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March 24, 2010

Abused Women’s Center

 

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Protect The Children

 
Dear Mrs Figgins:
 i wanted to ask you what would you do or if you have any suggestions
if you were in a situation where theirs these gangs coming after you
and they’ve don’t got you just yet or never will
but they have your children thru the night when night comes they go to
where the person has recently custody of them and their abusing the
children and sexual abusing my daughter and the children aren’t with
you and theirs nothing you can’t do bacause you’ve tryed to tell the
police but the police won’t seem to help because they don’t have
names or evidence or anything and the adopted family don’t want to
talk as well. And you can’t take the children because you don’t have
custody of them and the adopted family don’t want to cooraperate with
turning these gang members to the police. and if i take the kids i
would be going to jail and facing a lot of years in prison and it
won’t help me nor the children that i am in jail because i won’t be
able to help them.
What do you think i should do?
 
 Dear Esmeralda:
You are in a heartbreaking and dangerous situation.  Please write back and let us know what city you are in? 
I implore you to plan carefully for your sake, and the sake of your children.
There are “Abused Women’s Centers”.  There are wonderful caring people there and they will help find a safe place for you.  They will help with the steps you should take to protect your children. 
If you don’t know where an Abused Women’s Center is located,  then go to a Mental Health Center.  They will be able to direct you.
The  Abused Women’s Center will help you. 
You must believe this.  You must get help.  You will be well looked after and you will be safe.
Planning is the key, Esmeralda. 
GOD has given us no greater responsibility than to protect the children.
May HE watch over you.
Mrs. Figgins 

 

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March 23, 2010

He hasn’t revealed the real him

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Fishy or Not?

 
Dear Mrs. Figgins:
I finished high school by the skin of my teeth.  I tried college but dropped out my second semester.   I started a little company in the oil business and it’s gone bigger than my wildest dreams.  I’ve made more money than I’ll spend in this lifetime unless I give it away.  
I met a great girl.   Her name is Shannon.  Didn’t tell her that I owned a company because I wanted to us to get to know each other for who we really are. 
I have an apartment I keep for my parents when they come into town – so that’s where she thinks I live.  She comes from a very traditional family with strong faith so the fact that there’s been no sex between us has made it easier for me to keep this up.   
Anyway, I met her parents.   Her mother asked what I do, and I told her I work offshore.  We discussed that my Dad was a fisherman.  Dad questioned me like I was on the witness stand. I followed up by saying I would like to finish my education at some point in the future.  Her told her Shannon’s grandmother that I’m a fisherman (just so happens my Father was a fisherman).  
The next day her Dad told her he was he thought I was a “good and decent chap” but didn’t think I was husband material because I wouldn’t be able to support her in a way to raise and support a family.   
Should I break the news about what I really do, let it go for now or walk away?
Peter, Houston
 
Dear Peter:
Let it go?  And, continue the lie? 
Walk away?  You mean walk away because you didn’t tell her the truth and she doesn’t have ESP?
Don’t blame her Dad if he smelled something fishy.  He intuitively wanted to protect their daughter.  This comes with the territory with parents.   
Are you the real thing, Peter?  So far neither Shannon nor her parents have met the real you.
It’s time for the test to be over.  
If you really like this girl, my advice is that you ask them to a lovely dinner as soon as possible and come completely clean. 
Othewise, Dad’s intuition is right on the money. 
Mrs. Figgins
 
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March 21, 2010

Single parent wants to know if son has dyslexia?

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Dyslexia

 
Dear Mrs. Figgins:
I’m a single parent.  My son is 11 years old and he’s having a bit of a problem reading and writing.  He’s becoming increasingly more embarrassed and I’m feeling helpless.   
I have a friend who told me last night that she thinks he might have dixlexsia.  If this is the case what is it and what can I do.  This is breaking my heart.    
Maryann, Diamond MO
 
Dear Maryann:
Watching your child struggle with dyslexia is devastating.  If your son has dyslexia it can be overcome.  It is important he get tested.
Dyslexia is a neurological-based learning disability that makes learning to read difficult. The brain processes information differently.  Experts do not precisely know what causes dyslexia, but it is believed that genetics play a major role. 
This does not mean that children with dyslexia are less intelligent than their peers.  As a matter of fact kids with dyslexia are often exceptionally bright and very creative.
Tips for Parents of Children with Dyslexia
  • Educate yourself. Learn all you can about dyslexia treatments. Seek out other parents of children with dyslexia. They can be an excellent source of information and support.
  • Make sure your child is getting the help he or she needs. See that your child is evaluated and that he or she is getting the right sort of intervention and accommodations at school.  Talk with your son’s teacher and school administrator.  Ask for their help and request an evaluation in writing, and note why your child should be tested immediately.
  • Read to your child often and encourage your child to read.
  • Provide homework support. Make sure your child has a quiet place to study.  Creating a relaxed and stress-free environment for them to do their homework, and plenty of time to complete it.  Be patient.
  • Look into free or low-cost community agencies. If you can afford it, private tutoring is also an option.
  • Encourage your child to engage in and pursue activities he or she enjoys
  • Give lots of positive feedback and encouragement.  
  • Get help if your child shows signs of emotional distress.  Your pediatrician can refer you to a counselor or therapist.
You can handle this Maryann – take the proper steps.  You son will be OK. 
Best,
Mrs. Figgins
 
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March 20, 2010

Obamacare Slaughter Rule

OUR Country1 150x150 Obamacare Slaughter Rule

OUR CONSTITUTION.

 

With the health care bill imminent, Mrs Figgins continues to share thoughts, opinion and important information on the subject.
We extend much gratitude to the Heritage Foundation for the following review on the Obamacare Slaughter Rule.
I implore each citizen to get involved.  Each individual makes a difference. 
Mrs. Figgins

 

Obamacare Slaughter Rule is without Precedent

Posted March 16th, 2010   

Yesterday, Speaker of the House Nancy Pelosi (D-CA) endorsed the rumored Slaughter Rule to send the Senate passed Obamacare bill to the President without a direct up-or-down vote in the House. Don’t believe those on the left who are trying to argue that because Republicans used deeming resolutions when they were in power, it is ok for Democrats to use a similar tactic to pass legislation without a vote. 

Under this procedure, the House would vote on a rule setting up debate.  The House would then skip a vote on the Senate passed version of Obamacare and move directly to a vote on reconciliation amendments to that Senate passed bill.  If reconciliation passes, then the House will deem the Senate bill to have passed the House without a direct vote.  As Michael McConnell wrote yesterday in the Wall Street Journal, this is yet another reason Obamacare would be unconstitutional. 

Pelosi explained the need for this procedure yesterday: “I like it, because people don’t have to vote on the Senate bill.”  Many Democrats could vote for the rule and claim that they are against the Senate bill. 

A Wall Street Journal Op Ed today, points out that this procedure is unprecedented because never before has Congress passed a comprehensive reform bill using this tactic: 

As Stanford law professor Michael McConnell pointed out in these pages yesterday, “The Slaughter solution attempts to allow the House to pass the Senate bill, plus a bill amending it, with a single vote. The senators would then vote only on the amendatory bill. But this means that no single bill will have passed both houses in the same form.” If Congress can now decide that the House can vote for one bill and the Senate can vote for another, and the final result can be some arbitrary hybrid, then we have abandoned one of Madison’s core checks and balances.  Yes, self-executing rules have been used in the past, but as the Congressional Research Service put it in a 2006 paper, “Originally, this type of rule was used to expedite House action in disposing of Senate amendments to House-passed bills.” They’ve also been used for amendments such as to a 1998 bill that “would have permitted the CIA to offer employees an early-out retirement program”—but never before to elide a vote on the entire fundamental legislation. 

Article 1, Section 7 of the U.S. Constitution states, “Every Bill which shall have passed the House of Representatives and the Senate, shall, before it becomes a Law, be presented to the President of the United States.”  If the House does not have a direct vote on the legislation, this seems to be a violation of the explicit language of the Constitution. 

Many on the left are relying on a Congressional Research Service Report (CRS) for the proposition that the Slaughter Rule has been used on numerous occasions. According to CRS, self-executing rules are a “two for one” that describes “when the House adopts a rule it also simultaneously agrees to dispose of a separate matter, which is specified in the rule itself.  For instance, self-executing rules may stipulate that a discrete policy proposal is deemed to have passed the House and been incorporated in the bill to be taken up.”  Now many times this has happened to incorporate amendments before a bill receives an up or down vote or it can be used to get a bill to conference. 

The self-executing rule can be used to deal with bills containing amendments added by the Senate.  The CRS report cites a few examples of self-executing rules to “enact significant substantive and sometimes controversial propositions.”  The first example CRS identifies is that “on August 2, 1989, the House adopted a rule (H.Res. 221) that automatically incorporated into the text of the bill made in order for consideration a provision that prohibited smoking on domestic airline flights of two hours or less duration.”  The legislation to prohibit smoking on domestic flights was made part of another bill, then that other bill received a vote.  This is very different, because the health care reconciliation measure will not be incorporated into the Senate passed version of Obamacare and the reconciliation measure will be sent to the Senate for separate consideration. 

Speaker of the House Nancy Pelosi and other House leaders are readying the Slaughter Rule and the American people should watch this process closely. 

The left will try to say that because Republicans have done it in the past, then they can do the same.  The Constitutional question is on the table and there is no direct precedent for the House to pass a reconciliation measure which deems a massive health care bill to have passed without a direct vote.

 

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March 19, 2010

Uninvited wedding guests?

 Uninvited wedding guests?
Who’s there?

 
Dear Mrs. Figgins:
My husband and I have a little issue we need help with and PRONTO.
Our son is getting married. We’re paying for the wedding because our daughter in laws family is in bad financial straits.
The kids are very considerate and limited the wedding budget. Once the invitations went out, they started getting RSVP’S back with added guests.
The list has grown by another 50%. We’ve never even heard of many of the people coming!
Look, we’re not well off either.
We’re just regular people trying to keep it together. Is there anything we can do at this point to stop the flood?
Runaway Wedding, Quebec
 
Dear Runaway:
Shore up the dam and stop the flood. PRONTO!
Contact the folks that invited the uninvited and ask them to respectfully let them know that they read the invitations incorrectly. They will have to make the “corrections” ASAP.
You can choose to explain that it is a budget issue or simply state that the invitations didn’t mean “et al”.
If your guests decide to accommodate their guests, then they can pay for the extra guests upfront.
If you don’t handle this PRONTO, then, “c’est la vie”.
Mrs. Figgins
 
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March 18, 2010

Reconciliation made simple

CONSTITUTION Reconciliation made simple
Protecting & Defending

 
With the health care bill imminent, many readers have written to ask the question:  What is “reconciliation?”
We extend much gratitude to the Heritage Foundation for the following explanation.
I implore each citizen to get involved.  Each individual makes a difference. 
There is power in numbers!
Mrs. Figgins
 

Reconciliation 101: A “Nuclear” Abuse of Power

Published on September 18, 2009
Why Reconciliation Exists
  • What Is Reconciliation? Reconciliation is an optional step of the annual budget process which allows legislation to be approved by 51 votes in the U.S. Senate, rather than the traditional 60 votes necessary to withstand a filibuster. This may also mean 50 votes plus Vice President Biden as the 51st.This process is a shortcut — limiting debate, including floor debate, to only 20 hours.
  • The Purpose? Reconciliation was created to streamline Senate rules to make it easier for lawmakers to achieve the spending and tax levels in the budget resolution. Period. It was not created to circumvent the Senate’s traditional role as the “world’s greatest deliberative body” and its 60 vote requirement in order to ram through what may be the most significant domestic legislation in our history — legislation whose impact goes well beyond the budget.
  • The Byrd Rule: To protect the sanctity of the Senate, Robert Byrd (D-WV) enacted a rule to limit the inclusion of non-germane issues. The Byrd Rule prohibits reconciliation from including measures that do not change outlays or revenues, or matters that would increase the deficit for fiscal years beyond those covered by the legislation under debate.
  • 60 Votes: The Senate intentionally has a 60 vote threshold to move important policy issues so that they receive the full attention and deliberation of the Senate. Centuries of tradition dictate that is where “we pour legislation into the senatorial saucer to cool it.”
  • Precedent:The Senate has used reconciliation in the past on strictly budget or fiscal matters, including the 2001 and 2003 Bush tax cuts, which as revenue altering bills met the standards set by the Congressional Budget Act.
The Consequences of Reconciliation: Stopping the Debate
  • Bipartisan Prejudice: 59 Senators currently caucus with the majority. If reconciliation were to be used to pass health care legislation, it would disenfranchise senators and those they represent on a crippling bipartisan basis.
  • Future Precedent: By using reconciliation, and bypassing Senate rules, to pass a piece of policy legislation that overhauls one-sixth of our economy, the Senate would be initiating a precedent for future partisan majorities to eliminate thoughtful debate and pass reckless and partisan legislation “by any means necessary.” Reconciliation bills are limited to 20 hours of debate and are difficult to amend.
  • Who Is Alan Frumin? The reconciliation process leaves incredible policy issues at the hands of the Senate Parliamentarian, Alan Frumin. The non-elected Mr. Frumin would be responsible for deciding what could and could not be included in the final health care bill, making him the first of many faceless bureaucrats in Washington who could make important decisions that affect your health care.
  • Checks and Balances: Our Founders designed the Senate as the “balanced wheel” to offset the passions presumed to dominate the House of Representatives. This course of action would turn the Senate into a replica of the House, jettisoning the super-majority requirement and thereby losing a constitutionally vital check and balance.
A Better Approach to Health Care Reform
  • Start Over: Instead of passing a <2,000+ page> bill that subverts the democratic process, and cannot even garner the support of the entire liberal majority, Congress should start over. They should create simple legislation that (1) lays the groundwork for states to be the leaders in health care innovation; (2) provides economic relief to working American families, giving them real private choice and nationwide competition that allows them to carry their desired health insurance from job to job and home to home; and (3) does not put Uncle Sam in the middle of the doctor-patient relationship.
 
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March 17, 2010

Saying no to a "friend"

Say no Saying no to a "friend"
Just STOP.

 
Dear Mrs. Figgins:
I am in 9th grade.  My best friend always wants me to help her with homework.  I don’t mind helping but lately she’s wanted me to do reports for her because she’s been sneaking off with her boyfriend.
 I’m not comfortable because I’ve had to lie to my parents about what I’m doing.  If I don’t help her she’s might fail.
 Can you please help?  What do you think I should do?
 Lindsey,  PA 
 
 Dear Lindsey:
Don’t lie to your parents.  Don’t continue lying for your friend or doing her homework.
A true friend wouldn’t ever expect you to do either. 
Have a talk with your friend and let her know that you’re not going to continue doing any of the above.  
You’ll feel better about yourself, because you’ll be doing the right thing.  
Mrs. Figgins
 
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March 16, 2010

He beat her – she enlisted

Sad Children He beat her   she enlisted
Protect the children, and you.

 
Dear Mrs. Figgins:
I have been in a physically abusive relationship.   Everything was going real good in our marriage until  I had the kids.  Something changed  and he started to become jealous.  It started with a push and an apology.  Then it got worse.  He slapped, chocked and kicked.  Something as minor as his coffee not being hot enough he’d go off and I’d get it.  He never beat the kids but that fear ran through  my body every single day.  I have nightmares at what they saw their father do to their mother.
On my way to the grocery store, I did something I never would have imagined.   I walked in and enlisted in the military.  If I didn’t think enough of myself,  I needed to protect my kids.  I need to get my life straight and get an education so I can give my kids one.
My parents are taking care of the kids while I’m In training.
I have filed for divorce.  My husband and I have only talked when it has to do with the children.  He keeps saying how much he misses his family.  He wants us to get back together again.  
Do you think for the kids sake I should give him another chance?
Healing in Oceanside
 
Dear Healing:
What would you be going back for?  Perhaps a broken jaw, a visit to intensive care or a one way ride to the mortuary? 
Continue your new path for your sake and importantly, the sake of your children. 
Children learn behavior by example.  And what they saw their father do to you was horrific.  They need to heal as much as you do.
It took strength and courage for you to walk in to that recruiter’s office and enlist.  You had it in you, and you did the right thing.
Don’t ever look back.
Mrs. Figgins
 
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March 15, 2010

Husband cheats – she wants out

Which way 300x243 Husband cheats   she wants out
Which Way?

 

Dear Mrs. Figgins:

I’m at a loss and don’t know what to do.
I’ve been married for 30 years.  We have 3 wonderful children and grandkids on the way.
Outwardly we are the family.  The truth is that over the years my husband has had many mistresses. 
Some of his relationships have lasted for several years.  He’s involved in one now.  I know, because his mistress came to my work.  She says they’re in love.
I confronted my husband and he says the fact that he comes home every day shows he loves me.  He doesn’t want a divorce.  Furthermore, he refuses to talk about it anymore. 
We’re financially stable and maybe that’s why he doesn’t want a divorce.
He’s the only man I’ve ever been with.  I don’t know what to do.  I want a different life but I am afraid of the unknown. 
What would you do if you were in my shoes?
Not knowing which way to go in Tallahassee
 
Dear Not Knowing:
You need to find your self respect, to find your backbone or grown one. 
Your husband is not going to change, and you are faced with a fork in the road:   Stay and put up, or leave.
I would choose the latter.
It will save you many more years of deceit and pain.
Talk with a lawyer.  Take back your life. 
Mrs. Figgins
 
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March 13, 2010

Taking America Back

OUR Country 300x208 Taking America Back
OUR Country

 
Dear Mrs. Figgins:
I am sending you this letter on behalf of many Americans.    
What happened to capitalism and free enterprise?  What happened to allowing failure as well as success? 
Wasn’t  the $700  billion  in TARP money supposed to have saved the global economy?   Wasn’t it at least suppose to save America’s financial system, and buy the toxic assets and enable lending institutions to start “loaning” money? 
The money hasn’t been used for its original intent —– and 1/2 the money hasn’t even been spent.   Where did the money that has been spent go???   Oh silly us – of course – we the people bought  2 automobile companies.  Remember Chrysler & General Motors?  Oy, what a deal! 
If the economy is on the upswing – why spend the balance?  That’s right –  that tidy little stash is being spent on bribes and re-election campaigns, like the Louisiana Purchase, Corn-husker Deal and the sweetheart deals with the unions?
There’s no time to clean out the “swamp”, like Ms Pelosi promised.   No, No, No.   No time to look back  at what lies ahead.  We’re busy digging more swamp room.  We’re in a hurry to dig ourselves deeper with a guy I regretably helped elect.  
Mr. Obama, Ms. Pelosi, Mr. Reid and cronies are way too busy behind closed doors ramming a bill down our American throats.   
Heck, we can all figure out the details, but not until after they simply “deem” the bill passed without a vote.  They want us to trust them and accept that “transparency” was just a campaign promise.
Americans want to help our neighbors.  Americans want to help those less fortunate.   Americans” want real Health Care “Reform”.  But Americans don’t want to eat what Washington is serving up. 
The scales have fallen off our eyes, and the gloves have come off. 
Now WE THE PEOPLE are the ones making a promise that won’t be broken.  We’re throwing the bums out.
We’re Americans, and they’re hearing us roar:  WE’RE BACK!    
We’re taking back our country.   YES WE CAN!
Awake In America 
 
Dear Awake:
Well said.  
I agree.  No one likes what’s being served up.
Since the health care vote (or deeming of it) is iminent, we would like to express our sincere gratitude to the Heritage Foundation for allowing us to include the following article on Health Care Reform written by  Mr. Brian Darling,  Director of Senate Relations at The Heritage Foundation.
Many Americans, including yours truly, wholeheartedly share in this opinion.
Roar loud and proud, America!   
Mrs. Figgins
 

The High Hurdle of Health Care Reform

Last year the House of Representatives and the Senate passed different versions of health care “reform.”  But both houses need to pass identical bills before a measure can become law. The easiest way to accomplish that would be for the House to simply pass the Senate bill as is.
But for fans of ObamaCare, there’s a problem. Many House members oppose crucial elements in the Senate bill, including federal funding for abortion.
One group, in fact, has come to be known as the “Stupak dozen.” Named for Rep. Bart Stupak, (D-Mich.), these lawmakers have said they will change their vote to no if federal funding for abortion is in the final bill.
Administration and Democratic leaders are asking members to, in effect, “just pass it; we will ask the Senate later to fix the parts you object to.” Except that this latter part is unlikely ever to happen. If ObamaCare becomes the law of the land, there would be no incentive for senators to pass something they dislike.
That’s why all the talk of “reconciliation” is meaningless. It’s unlikely this arcane legislative maneuver that allows for circumventing the traditional rules of the Senate would ever be used.
Equally meaningless are President Obama’s campaign-style events in traditional swing states. Obama has lost the battle for public opinion, and ginning up votes in one or two states won’t help him at this point.
So let’s review some of the most controversial components within the House and Senate versions.
  • The treatment of taxpayer-funded abortions.The House bill contains the Stupak-Pitts amendment, which would build a genuine firewall between federal funding and abortion coverage. The Senate bill, however, specifically allows federal taxpayer funding for abortion.
    The fact is that a House vote for the Senate bill would enshrine the Senate abortion language in federal law, while any revisions would require 60 votes in the Senate and a majority in the House. This appears unlikely given reports that the White House and Congressional Democrats will move forward with or without the support of the pro-life members of their caucus.
     
  • Government-run health care no matter what. The bills also differ in whether or not to offer a “public option” to “compete” with private insurers. The Senate bill eliminated provisions to establish an explicit public plan. Instead, it would set up multi-state private health plans sponsored by the U.S. Office of Personnel Management to compete against private health plans in the state-based exchanges the Senate bill mandates.
    The House bill, meanwhile, includes an explicit government-run health plan. And House liberals have already compromised, watering down the public plan they wanted in order to get a bill passed. So those liberals would need to really back down to agree to the Senate bill.
  • Employer mandates that kill jobs. Another problem, shared by both the House and Senate bills, is the mandate that employers provide insurance coverage.
    The Senate bill would fine any company that employs 50 or more $750 per worker unless the company provides “federally qualified coverage.” If a worker uses federal subsidies to buy coverage through the health insurance exchange the federal government plans to set up, the employer would pay an annual penalty of $3,000 for each worker who obtains a subsidy.
    Talk about a job-killer. Small companies would have a reason to stay small, and employers would have little incentive to hire new workers. The House version, meanwhile, goes right to taxation. It would force employers to offer federally qualified health-care coverage to their employees and pay a specified percentage for single and family premiums or pay a payroll tax of up to 8 percent.
  • Tax penalties for the non-insured. Both bills would also require individuals to either buy federally approved health insurance or pay a tax penalty. The Senate bill would impose its penalties starting in 2014, and the annual penalty would be at least $750 in the years ahead.
    Beginning in 2013, the House bill would require individuals to pay 2.5 percent of their income if they don’t obtain federally “acceptable” health care coverage. Those with health insurance that doesn’t meet the federal standards would still pay the tax penalty. Individual citizens would be punished in either case.
The best way to figure out a trick is to keep your eye on the magician, and ignore the distractions. Poll after poll shows that a growing majority opposes ObamaCare. It’s going to take more than a talented illusionist to pull off this legislative sleight of hand.
 
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